The other day my house mate Matt made an off hand comment that we as a group were really still playing fort, just we did as kids.
This off hand comment led us to the simplistic notion that we are all really still playing childhood games that we just take more seriously.
We came up with 3 main interactions, fort, house, and sleepover. Keep in mind these are obviously over simplifications of complex social interactions. That being said lets goof off a bit.
Fort: When people are wanting to play fort, it's a grouping together for protection.
The idea being that outside the fort is dangerous territory, and people outside the fort are not to be trusted. Primary activities are planning raids into "enemy" territory. Improving the fort, this takes many forms.
Examples of groups playing fort are: gangs, corporations, governments.
Sleep Over: People who's primary mode is playing sleep over are generally looking for emotional support. Main themes include physical beauty, sharing of innermost feelings in a place of safety, and commiseration. Primary activities include physical appearance improvement, gossip, generally aimed at improving the self image.
House: This is the one most played by "adults", an odd twist being it also the one most mistaken for another. Those playing house often switch to fort, or sleep over mode to hide their true desire to play house. A person playing the masculine role will often drink the kool aid of sleep over hoping it will morph into playing house. Likewise a person playing the feminine role will often show great adroitness at playing fort, while pushing the game toward house.
To close this is a superficial division, we all have a desire to play all aspects at differing points in our development.
Jack
aka
PanseyBard
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