Shifting Gender Roles, Observations on the Fundamental operating differences

Well hello again, I’ve been going crazy some more!!! woot.

I want to start by saying these are my thoughts, if you don’t like them stop reading!!

Last night I was thinking about the way men and women are designed physically.
This lead me to the inward outward focus. In the not so distant past, present and future
gender roles will be defined. In the west we had some pretty clearly defined roles until fairly recently. These roles were in part based on the physical design of our bodies.

So Men in general were, and are outwardly focused, stimulated visually.

Women on the other hand tended to be more inwardly focused, and stimulated by feelings.
This worked for humanity for awhile, till we each got to thinking maybe the other gender role had more, or better perks, what have you.  Western cultures have all gone through the redefinition of these roles with a focus on opening up for more contribution of women. I’ll be honest this one confuses me quite a bit. I see no bigger way to shape the world then raising the children, and this has been one area that so many have neglected. On the whole we didn’t do a role swap, we just opened all the roles up to everyone. Was anyone thinking what would happen to the kids?
Who has been raising your children? There is a good chance that there are kids I know that would listen to me over their parents. Really? Are you folks ok with this? I’m a high school, and college dropout that thinks about all of life how you read this now. Do you really want me to be a guiding force in your childs life? If you're not, someone else will be.
That got a bit off topic, but as conscious channel it happens.
Back to the role swapping from the perspective of how it’s effecting interpersonal relationships, you know, “hooking up”. Few men have ever bothered to even take the time to realize that out of the box men, and women operate from a different hemisphere brain dominance. Now this isn’t to say there are no men operating from a intuition dominate perspective, or no women operating from a logic dominate perspective. Only that the earlier defined roles we limited to that, this had the effect of specialization. Men became the hunters, and by practicing those skills develop them
even further. Fast forward a few hundred or more generations, and we had what appeared to be a male dominant culture where the women had all the power due to raising the children.
When the women's liberation movement really stormed on through freeing women to choose their own roles instead of society defining it for them, it became a wonder to behold. I mean really look around you, at how many things are already being run up front by women. The part of this that from my perspective has become problematic is that mens roles haven’t kept pace with womens. Men have lost their social identity, they used to be provider, protector, stern father figure, the one person you didn’t want mad at you. This only worked for men because from an overall standpoint women filled one role, and men the other. Now men who didn’t understand women, but thought they did, due to the marvelous job women did filling their role, are more confused than ever. We meet a woman, and we have to now try to deduce how we should be treating them. On top of this women in the bigger cities have on average passed men in average earnings, while still maintaining the belief that she should be provided for by her man! Are you serious? Can I have my Kate, and Edith too? I mean Adam had to give up the bad girl Lilith before god made Eve.

Funny to me in all this, is that if everyone would just be honest with what they want from the people they interact with, these difficulties would vanish.
Before I wrap this up as I haven’t even gotten to the insight that prompted me to write this in the first place.
If you want to be the bread winner fine, be the bread winner, but allow for your partner to help you eat it without strings!!
If you both want to be bread winners, don’t complain with your kids grow up with other peoples values, you didn’t raise them!!!

All of this led me to what I find interesting. The women who follow Islam covering themselves.
This makes perfect sense from the perspective that men are outwardly focused, and it was brought into a time and place where men were out of control. There was no rule of law, might made right, and women were/are considered property. Starting there it’s not tough to see why you’d want your family protected in any way possible.
The only time this does become a problem is when it is misused/abused.
Using what is a sacred tradition for purpose other than intended makes it an affront to God.

Please keep in mind my intention is not offend, it’s to learn, play, grow!!
thank you playskool

Be well

PanseyBard

Balance of logic, and intuition, in other words the battle of the sexes!!

This was possible my biggest hurdle, I just couldn't get my logic and intuition to agree. My logic could follow along really well, but all the answers ended in a paradox, or a circle, and my logic couldn't see where that existed in creation, as a result couldn't accept the answers.
Finally I was watching something I can't even remember what it was, but they were talking about black holes. How if you were to throw your wallet toward a black hole, letting get sucked in. The information to reconstruct your wallet would be smeared out around the disk of the black hole. They went on to discuss how in a black hole the laws of physics break down and 1+1 can equal 3.
Well there it was the paradox my logic needed to comprehend what my intuition was saying.
I then started seeing things from outside the whole, that lets me see patterns, but not always so good on details. I'm still working on being able to shift focus to any point.
I did learn a neat trick to balance the hemispheres of the brain.
Panseybard

Idea for starting to make a holodeck

This is going out on a limb, but I'd love to see someone with more resources then I try this out.

Minimum of 3 hd projector lenses, these become your objective subject.
they are the perspectives needed to give your hologram more then 2 dimensional substance.
those beams will be projecting their perspective of the objects they see in a virtual space, into this so called real world. Where those beams cross sets up a distortion pattern based on the differences between varied objective subjects.
Now that you have the distortion pattern set up you need some particulate that is suspended in the air for the distortion pattern to refract off. My thought is crushed crystal so fine our standard way of looking wouldn't perceive it.
Suspending the particulate could be accomplished through using technology like the ionic breeze.
this would keep the particulate circulating throughout the room, and keep it from settling out of the air.

If my through process is on the mark, this should give the basics to grow on to make a holodeck.

Next would be to make it physically interactive. I'm not quite sure how to do that one yet.
I do think nature shows us the mechanism when we touch something.
We think we touch things, but in reality electrons line up between the objects.
think collision detection. Electrons line up between the objects, repelling the ones lining up opposite.
Using this as a base model for what needs to be achieved the how to accomplish it I'll leave to smarted people then I.

ok I know I'm going a bit out there on this one. take it for what you will.

PanseyBard

Tricks and Tips, Law of Attraction

Today I'm gonna share a bit about the law of attraction. Many people have read about or watched movies, it's become pretty much a household understanding at least with the people I interact with. What I've noticed while the basics have been brought to the surface of awareness, the underlying structure hasn't been well explained. This has left many people using the law, while still getting things they didn't intend.

I'm going to explain it from an odd perspective, I'm doing this because it's the way I understand it.

Do what you will with the information, but miss use it at your own risk.
What I write here is purely my perspective, if you don't like or agree with it. I'm fine with that, so you don't need to flame me. I won't pay attention to you anyway.

On with the Show.

In nature where we currently find ourselves a vacuum doesn't exist until we make one.
nature will rush to fill the space when given the chance.
when we use the universal law and define something as being lacking in our experience, creation springs into action to fill this void we created. This is great, law of attraction working as intended.
What happens next is we are presented with the closest possible event in relation to us that will fill that unnatural void. This is where most people get tripped up, they say yes.
They worked so hard to understand how to become a co-creator with all that is, and when they finally get the courage up to use their understanding poof. They settle for the first event that sorta fits the void they created. Well at this point all that is, has done it's job. It looked for a void, or vacuum what ever you want to call it. Lack, Desire, Want, Need. all these words that describe a not having something. These concepts are very odd indeed to a being who is infinite.
Some of you may be thinking, but wait arn't I an infinite being as well?
 I can't really answer that question without getting to know you.
What I can do is share my understanding of the syntax, the thought structures that create reality.
Point out the places where the words being used are out of harmony with the intent behind them.
Generally you can say anything to anyone, once you know how to speak their tongue.

Ok enough of the rambling, that wasn't my intent at the moment.

Here is the trick, learn to say no
We are all so concerned with making sure everyone else is well cared for, or we feel that which ever comes along first has to be meant for us.
I'm telling you that is giving away your divine heritage.
Some may also be thinking WOW did he really just tell me to say NO  to GOD?
The short answer, YES!!!
say it nicely, even explain why this offering is out of harmony with your universe.
Claim your divine rights. Move from a place of worshiping all that is, to be being in relation to all that is.
Return to the state of being in the Family of all that is, you never left, you only forgot.
All that is works from a scale and scope we can only imagine, the expectation that the first option is the best one isn't always true.
Learn to be honest at least with self, and all that is.
Become a partner in the creation of your story.
Learn discernment.

Thanks

PanseyBard

Well it looks like this is where I'm gonna be for a bit.
I have alot of accounts, like www.panseybard.com
or how about my twitter feed which of course is how I ended up here.
in the course of a week I took a crash real world course on social media
as a marketing tool. now in one day I've had my twitter feed suspended twice.
I admit freely that I used an adder for 12 or 13 people. the rest was all done with extensions
and apps I downloaded for free, and was actually lead to most of em.
Then when I was able to add faster then the system allowed for using only the tools they provide
I get my account suspended.
I freely admit I'm a slacker, hell in high school it took almost a year for the adults to figure out I had dropped out.
I've spent my life doing as little as possible, and when I finally decide to actually apply myself to something other then gaming I get slapped on the wrist for going to fast.
well thats an opening rant I guess.

PanseyBard, the Digital Pied Piper signing off

hey shoutout to those that led me here, you know who you are
thank you, I love you all